With super thick and what I call "naturally nasty" (not curly, not straight, not wavy, defiant and frizzy) hair every time I would start to get my hair long, it would get warm out. As it gets warmer I have no desire to blow dry my hair and start sweating minutes after taking a shower. So my solution to not having to spend time on my hair would be to chop it off. I actually had grown it out a good amount, and then Munchkie was born and I went in when she was less than two weeks old to have several inches taken off. This (pic below) was my hair two years ago at a friend's wedding. I am so proud of myself for growing it out. It may seem like a little thing, but to me it has been a struggle for five years.
You might ask why I would want to grow my hair out if it's such a struggle. Well, first off, because Munchkie's Daddy likes long hair and secondly because it makes me feel empowered to meet a goal I set for myself. Even if that goal was initially set to make someone else happy. Every time I went into the salon and ask for it to be chopped off, I would feel so relieved to have an easy, quick style. But then I would feel this little hint of regret, like I had given up on a goal and was unable to achieve it. It feels really good to realize that after several years, my goal has been met.
See you later short mom hair!
I love the long hair. Your hair is so beautiful. Congrats on meeting your goal!
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