It's really quite crazy how before Halloween was even over Christmas was being forced into our faces. Not to mention completely confusing small children who can hardly keep straight what tomorrow means, let alone "after Thanksgiving." Now that Halloween is past it's ridiculous how much Christmas stuff is out there. Tonight we were driving home from my work and the lamp posts surrounding our little town green had Christmas lights, red bows and greenery on every lamp post. Munchkie exclaimed as she looked out the window "look Mom (this is cool now, just to say Mom) it's Christmas all over!"
Besides the fact that I really feel like we need to be thankful for all of the blessings in our lives before we start demanding of people all of the things we just "have to have," I think that Christmas being vomited all over me just makes me anxious. It makes me realize that my time to decide upon presents, create and distribute is very rapidly dwindling. I really enjoy creating homemade presents and I feel so much better giving someone something that I have created in love, rather than running into a store and picking up a completely impersonal gift card. Not that there's anything wrong with gift cards, because I do appreciate them in my own life, I just feel that I get more out of giving a homemade present. I am getting slightly stressed because I know that I need to get a move on, start creating. My ideas just aren't panning out like I would like for them to and it's making me nervous.
This post I read tonight reminded me that the holidays are not about me. They are about others. It's about giving and helping those in need. Especially as we are trying to teach our daughter the positive meaning of Christmas and encourage the giving rather than the receiving. This post really hit me. We so often give our leftovers. The toys we don't want anymore because they're worn or broken. The clothes that are stretched out and fit oddly. The random things around the house that you just don't want anymore. Really should we be giving people our broken, misshapen, or even diseased extras? Do people who live without really need 57 cans of potentially diseased cranberries? How about giving something that I would feed my own family? It really made me think, this week at Whole Foods (my fav store) whole chickens were on sale and I bought three for my family. Maybe this is my reminder that a family in need could use an antibiotic and hormone free, vegetarian fed roasting chicken. Maybe instead of worrying so much about more "stuff" that I can get people who have everything they need, I should worry about how much I can help meet the needs of those do don't have any "stuff" Instead of how much can we spend per person, how much can we bless others.
This year, I won't give any BAD CRANBERRIES. This year, we're going to do things a little differently.